It’s easy to fall into the trap of relying on generic pick-up lines and asking questions as a means of starting and maintaining conversations. However, in order to truly stand out and be successful, it’s important to avoid using questions and instead employ unique and effective techniques. One such technique is to focus on making statements and observations, rather than asking questions. This not only makes for more interesting and engaging conversations, but it also demonstrates your confidence, intelligence, and social skills. It’s important to remember that asking too many questions can make you come off as needy or uninteresting. Instead, focus on making statements and observations to guide the conversation and build a connection with the person you’re interacting with. By making statements about a person based on their appearance, behavior, and body language, you can create threads for conversation and demonstrate your confidence and intelligence. Additionally, by avoiding questions, you are able to avoid the trap of coming across as needy or overly interested.

Furthermore, making statements and observations allows you to take control of the interaction and steer the conversation in the direction you want it to go. Instead of asking a girl what she does for a living, you could make a statement such as “I can tell you’re someone who is passionate about their work”. This not only shows that you are paying attention to her, but it also gives her the opportunity to open up and talk about her passions and career. It also demonstrates your ability to pick up on social cues, and also opens up the opportunity for the other person to share more about themselves, without feeling like they’re being interrogated. Another example would be instead of asking “What’s your hobbies?” make a comment like “You seem like someone who is into fitness and health” This not only show you are listening and paying attention but also give her the opportunity to talk about her passion without feeling like she is answering a question.

Overall, while asking questions may seem like an easy and effective tactic for picking up women, it’s important to understand the limitations of this approach. By focusing on statements and observations, you can create more interesting and engaging conversations, demonstrate your confidence and intelligence, and avoid coming across as needy.